Dear Fam and Friends,
I want to thank you for
being here for me these past few months, it has in fact been, the most
difficult time of my life, despite having gone through some very difficult
times alongside my family in the past.
From each of you (including
Fuzz surprisingly) I’ve learned and taken some time that has allowed me to
reflect, and grow, and look at who I am and who I thought I was; and I have
discovered there is much to improve. Literally,
from each of you, I have learned something that can make me a better friend, a
better father, and a better husband (perhaps way better).
I have made the decision to work
on saving my marriage and I will be moving back into my home as soon as possible. I love my wife, I love my kids, I love my
family, and in my mind, heart, and soul, this the right decision to make. This doesn’t mean that my wife and I (I can
hear my brother correcting me) will magically get over everything that has
happened, and silence every concern and issue that has happened in our marriage,
particularly over the past few months.
But we will work on our marriage by any means necessary and will do so
together.
I know some of you may have
concerns, and I understand it comes from a place of love, and of ensuring we do
things appropriately, and in the best interest of our kids. And we will.
Someone told me a while back, “it sounds like you have one foot out” and
it was understood that it will never work with that mindset. He was right, and we will face our hardships
together, without a thought in the back of my mind that divorce is always an
option.
I thank each of you for
supporting my decision, and understanding that I love my wife and kids, and
that this is what is most important to me.
If any of you are not comfortable with my decision, and need to take
some time, I understand, but again, I refer you to, “I love my wife and kids,”
and this is what is best for all of us.
Thank you, each of you for
having some part in making me a better person for my family.
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