August 2018 Things over the last few months have been bad. We have both been at the point of walking away, several times. We have both said hurtful things, we have both not cared about the other, we have both at times not cared about our kids. We have forgotten the reasons we fell in love, and what we love in each other, and we have focused on what we dislike in one another, at times possibly event hated each other. The sad part of it is, although I kept track of what you said, in my mind I caught myself thinking some of the same things. I am not certain if saying it out loud for the other person to hear, is better or not. I think it isn't, but really, who is an expert in marriage? Even the smallest, most insignificant things have annoyed me. You make a [phoken mess in the kitchen, you drop something, say "oops," but it stays there, you continue to use leftover jars instead of the glass tupper, which makes it so difficult to serve out of, a...